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21 Things They Don’t Tell You in Pre-Marital Counseling

We’ve been married nine years today. During that time, we’ve done a lot of living. We’ve learned some beautiful and some painful lessons. We’ve each spent a week on a psych ward. We’ve had two babies. We’ve led two youth groups. We’ve nearly divorced at least once. And we have only just begun to learn what truly matters in life.
One thing is for sure, there are several things no one tells you before you walk down that aisle.

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10. Girls: Don’t throw away his favorite t-shirt without asking first. No matter how many holes it has.

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11. No more comparisons. You chose to be with your spouse. Not the guy or girl down the street. So love the one you’re with.

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12. Intimacy is more than sex.

By Steve Austin

Steve Austin is an author, speaker, and life coach who is passionate about helping overwhelmed people learn to catch their breath. He is the author of two Amazon bestsellers, "Catching Your Breath," and "From Pastor to a Psych Ward." Steve lives with his wife and two children in Birmingham, Alabama.