Ready to Share Your Story?
For the past few years, I’ve shared my story openly about my very worst day: believing the lie that I was a burden on my family, reading my Bible in a hotel room while writing my suicide notes, and eventually trying to end my life.
But my story doesn’t end there. A suicide attempt is actually where my story begins. In a way, I did die that day, but in so many other ways, trying to kill myself actually lead to a personal rebirth. I was finally able to see myself and embrace my wounds. I learned to set boundaries for the first time in my life. I ended or healed my codependent relationships. I learned how to ask for help and admit when I wasn’t okay. Eventually, I was able to reimagine faith again. And after intense therapy, my marriage became the healthiest it’s ever been.
Here’s what I’ve learned: the acknowledgement of our wounds leads to the most authentic version of healing. Because we live in a polarized either/or culture, it’s easy to believe that admitting dark truths will invalidate our greatest hopes, but it’s not true. I intentionally share my story in a way that informs the reader that deep sadness and intense healing can coincide - one doesn’t invalidate the other.
Is it time to share your story about how healing came from your own very worst day?
Your Chance to be Featured on My Blog
2020 will be my busiest year yet, as both an author and a speaker. I have some international speaking scheduled, and two manuscripts due - one in May and one in October. So I’ll be taking a back seat to blogging, and I’d love to give you the chance to drive!
If you’d like to share your story, simply respond to the following seven questions, and submit your responses via email to firstname.lastname@example.org. Your total submission should be between 600-900 words, and fully edited before being sent. If chosen, I’ll help you with minor edits for clarity, but I don’t have time to do full edits of any one piece.
Ready to get started? Here are the questions:
- Name (can be only your first name), Location, and any other identifying information you’d like to share (age, race, sexuality, etc.).
- What was your very worst day?
- (Use as much detail as possible. Really drop the reader into the experience. Ignite their senses using concrete nouns.)
- How has this event changed your life?
- How did this impact your relationships, identity, self-worth, politics, faith/spirituality, and more.
- What is one thing you wish you knew before this happened?
- Help the reader learn from your experience.
- What is the greatest strength you’ve found since your very worst day?
- What’s one piece of brutally honest, helpful advice you’d give to someone else who is living through their very worst day?
- Do you have a personal blog, podcast, lead magnet, or social media account you’d like for us to follow?